If other people can't hear you. or misunderstand what you're saying, it's because they're listening through the powerful filters of their own needs. We all listen through filters. We don't know we're doing it, but we hear one another through…
I noticed that some of my coaching clients were showing signs of grieving. I first certified as a grief counselor, so the symptoms were clear. Some clients seemed unusually sad, permanently resigned and depleted, others were demonstrating anger or unusual…
What is ambition, if not the drive to achieve? My British clients often judge naked ambition negatively. It's fine to reach the top of the social or professional ladder in the UK, just so long as no one sees you…
When we are given feedback that conflicts with our self-image, our instinct is to change the information rather than ourselves. There's been a lot published on how leaders should give feedback, but the real art is in receiving it. I…
Being excited about future rewards is a fundamental human desire, says empowerment coach Remy Blumenfeld You already know how having fun things to look forward later in the day, or on the weekend can help make a sad or boring…
Who'd Be A Billionaire? SKY I don't know anyone who hasn't fantasised about winning the lottery or making millions while they were sleeping, but as someone who has forensically studied the lifestyles of billionaires, you can take it from me…
Get Bill Gates and Angelina Jolie Working For You GETTY Remember how in The Wizard Of Oz, the Scarecrow wishes he had brains, the tin man longs for a heart, and the cowardly lion seeks courage? On their long journey…
A big part of my job as a coach is supporting clients to play the game of life with a sense of purpose, grace, and ease. Seeing life as a game isn't always easy. However, in an age when robots…
'Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right.'Henry Ford January is a great time to focus on what you want for the year ahead. I'm not talking about New Years' resolutions. Instead of focusing on what…
If you don't feel supported or understood over the holidays, it could be down to a relatively simple and common problem: You and your significant other may be communicating love and devotion in ways the other person simply doesn't understand as…
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